Let Them

Let them.

They don't want to change.

 Let them.

They don't invite you.

Let them.

Someone isn't ready to commit.

Let them.

I heard this a few weeks ago from Mel Robbins and it wrapped words around a practice that has absolutely changed my life.

Being attached to an outcome to get my own way is my unconscious response to life.

The conscious choice is catching myself and asking myself questions.

What am I afraid of happening or not happening and why?

There is almost always fear underneath and that is part of my spiritual practice.

I find out so much about myself in that space. 

It's ok for me to be disappointed but having serenity is my priority, regardless of the outcome.