Just recognizing others have their own hero's journey, it's not my job to do it for them. Anytime I'm pointing a finger that's not love, that's me trying to control my world.
The greatest changes take place just being with someone, fully awake, not trying to push my agenda.
We are taught to fight for what we believe in but I'd disagree. Fighting gets you no where. Being fully with others, as they are, without judgment is how we create lasting change.
This means staying focused on myself, having humility and being open minded.